Then they each have to find someone else in their life to fill their “neediness”.
This is where “trial and error” or “serial” dating comes into a person’s life.
“Serial” Dating: True, by not dating they miss out on that emotional and physical intimacy, and that sense of belonging to someone and being someone’s “one and only”.
But that really only lasts until a couple breaks up.
Even when the couple has the goal of being pure and chaste, they will still be subject to the struggle of keeping growing desires under control.
Young women are often looking for the security of emotional support and that feeling of being cherished by one person – being someone’s “one and only”!How many times can you fall in and out of being a different man’s “one and only” before you stop believing that you are worth loving and being truly cherished as one man’s “one and only true love” for life? By the time you are ready to marry and you find that someone whom God has called you to be with, what meaning in your life will all those past relationships have?How many men can you let into your heart as your “one and only” before you stop believing that you are truly capable of loving one man alone, unconditionally for life? Very little – apart from the regrets you might feel because you had given your heart, affection and perhaps physical intimacy to someone who is now not your husband.Nature of Dating Relationships: There are different ways to approach dating.Two stand out as the most common approaches in our society.