There is a killer, step-by-step technique for this in a podcast episode I did with the Menprovement founder, Sean Russell, which allows you to gain acceptance from her peers and isolate her from the group if you wish. In the meantime – always remember that any remotely attractive woman has had 100s of guys approach her. And fifth is inviting her into a conversation you’re already having. You can do this by saying something like, ‘Hey, you’re giving off an incredible energy, and I had to come over here and see what you’re deal was’.You need a good opener – a good opener starts a conversation with her in a way that sets you apart from the other guys who have approached her. While I have tons of exact little lines and things to say – and I’ll give you some here – keep in mind that you are an individual, and you can tailor each of these different types of openers to fit your personality and interests. Notice though, you are not complimenting the woman to seek her approval.
The following are from my research in compiling the Conversation Technique Audio Program and The Art of the Pick Up Line Audio Program. You’ve got a great look – you must be very creative.”This opener works well because everyone loves to thought of as being “creative.”She’ll either say yes, she is very creative and then talk to you about it, or deny that she is – at which point you can respectfully disagree with her, again pointing out that she has great style. And sadly, most men I talk with end up doing nothing at all.”And any manner of things that boils down to freezing up due to lack of preparation or abundance of fear.And in some instances, a good opener engages everyone the woman is hanging out with. This is an advanced technique – and I recommend it only to those brimming with confidence and a devil-may-care attitude.When approaching a group you will open the entire group. There is a lot to be said for not hiding the fact that you have come over here to hit on her.