You see a movie in which a black couple acts like your stereotypical black couple.They are loud, they complain and they scream “I tell you what you do. It requires you to love your girlfriend even more whenever someone says something negative. When you show her that you are her safe castle that she can escape to whenever the hate overwhelms her, the hate will make her glow.This turns dating a black woman for the first time into a wonderful experience.If you're a black man or woman or Asian man, you're going to have a tougher time getting a date on OKCupid.
Again, I believe that movies and the Hip Hop culture play a role in this ridiculous behavior.
On the other hand, they are used to the confident and unapologetically direct behavior of black men. They expect you to not care about what other people think.
This is one of the biggest strengths of black men, at least of the ones I know. to not give a flying fuck about what anyone thinks. Asian men who are dating a black woman won’t have that problem. It’s the white guys that tend to go a bit overboard.
The female intuition can’t be fooled and when it comes to white guys who believe that all black girls are strippers, the female intuition wakes up very early.There’s something about dating black women that you have to understand.
On the one hand, they appreciate when a white or Asian man is himself instead of acting black. I wish it was, but black women expect their men to be emotionally strong.